Do you often find yourself lamenting,
"I'm too old.
They only want yonger women"?
Trust ME they WANT YOU! Imagine if you could effortlessly filter out the sad dad duds and connect with quality matches who ignite your passion and excitement.
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What if, in just 90 DAYS, YOU Could Efficiently Reclaim Your Sense of Desire, Confidence and Power?
It's time to stop settling for less and start attracting the love and admiration you deserve.
TAKE ACTION NOW for a transformative journey where you'll learn to navigate the dating world with ease,
weed out the undesirables, and embrace your true pleasure.
Don't wait any longer to revitalize your love life â the transformation begins now.
What Happens When You Date Like a GROWN-ASS WOMAN?
You feel CONFIDENT.
You feel
FREE.
You give ZERO F*CKS.
You make your OWN rules.
And letâs be realâchange doesnât happen overnight.
My coaching is going to AWAKEN new parts of you.
My coaching is going to EXPOSE you to new ideas.
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And then?
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Itâs going to take REPETITION.
Reps in the gymnasium of your life. Reps to rewire old beliefs.
Reps to learn how to date like a grown-ass woman.
And when you do?
Youâll have FUN dating again.
Youâll attract men who actually SHOW UP.
Youâll feel sexy, desired, and in control.
Youâll create AUTHENTIC connections.
Not because you followed the rules. Not because you played âthe good girl.â
But because you finally STOPPED.
Hereâs the Problem...
You know that in order to attract the right kind of partner and create a love life that excites you, you need a CLEAR STRATEGY, CONFIDENCEÂ in who you are, and a way to date that DOESN'T FEEL LIKE A SECOND JOB.
BUT RIGHT NOW?
Youâre stuck in old patterns, unsure where to start.
Youâre questioning your desirability after years out of the game.
You donât have time to waste on dead-end dates and ghosting.
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Thatâs where Date Like a Grown A$$ Woman comes in.
We take the guesswork out of dating so you can date smarter, not harderâwith confidence, clarity, and a process that actually works.
The REAL STRUGGLES of a Single,
Successful Woman Dating Over 40
Daily Struggles:
Weekly Struggles:
Monthly Struggles:
Sound familiar?
Youâre not alone. And this cycle does not have to continue.
INTRODUCING
Date Like A Grown A$$ Woman
SPARCC 90 Day Program
Dating as a successful woman over 40 shouldnât feel like a part-time jobâor a soul-sucking chore.
Youâve spent years building your career, raising a family,
and taking care of everyone else.
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Now? Itâs your time.
But letâs be realâmodern dating is a minefield of ghosting, dead-end conversations, and men who donât meet your standards.
Youâre exhausted from swiping, unsure how to navigate this new world, and wondering if itâs even worth the effort.
Spoiler alert: It absolutely isâwhen you have the right strategy.Â
Date Like a Grown A$$ Woman SPARCC
is a 90-day transformational program
designed for high-achieving women who are DONE settling, DONE second-guessing, and READY to take control of their dating life.
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- This isnât about chasing love or playing by outdated rules.
Itâs about getting crystal clear on what you want, shifting old patterns, and confidently attracting high-value partnersâwithout wasting your time on the wrong ones. - Youâll learn the exact framework Iâve used (and taught hundreds of women) to date smarter, not harder, with real strategies that work in your life.
- Inside this program, youâll break free from limiting beliefs, master high-value attraction strategies, and finally experience dating as something fun again.
- Youâll have expert coaching, a powerful sisterhood, and a proven system to follow, so youâre never navigating this alone.Â
If youâre ready to stop waiting and start owning your love life,
THIS IS YOUR MOMENT.
"It Made Me Feel Vital and Alive and Sexy"
... I am not invisible. And, if I apply my focus and energy to any area of my life, that it can be revitalized.
I always was hung up on like, oh, I'm overweight, have kids and only certain kinds of guys are gonna like me. If you go out there with a positive attitude⊠and you bring a lot of enthusiasm to the party, (which I definitely do).
Then the world is your oyster and the range of people who might be interested in what you're putting out there. You WILL be surprised."
- ERIN, TV Exec/ Hotter Than Ever Podcast
Ready to Change Your Dating Life?
LET'S DIG INTO THE DETAILS
Whatâs Inside Date Like A Grown A$$ Woman SPARCC:
Ready to Change Your Dating Life?
"Is the Date Like A Grown A$$ Woman SPARCC Program right for me?"
The truth? This program isnât for everyone.
I know that probably sounds surprising coming from the person
selling this program, but itâs the truth.
Because this isnât a quick fix.
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This is not for women who:
Want overnight success
(if youâre looking for a magic love potion, this ainât it!)
Arenât ready to challenge old patterns
(if you want to keep doing the same thing & expecting different results, thatâs called insanityâEinstein said that, not me!)
Refuse to put themselves first
(this program will ask you to break old habits & prioritize YOUR needsâbecause you deserve it!)
Think the perfect man will just âshow upâ
(spoiler alert: dating smarter means being intentionalânot waiting for Prince Charming to DM you!)
BUT IF YOU'RE A WOMAN WHO:
Is DONE wasting time on dead-end dates & unavailable men
Wants to date on HER terms (not societyâs or her exâs)
Is ready to feel sexy, confident, and in control
Wants a step-by-step process that actually WORKS
âŠthen the Date Like A Grown A$$ Woman SPARCC Program was made for you.
â Execs, entrepreneurs, single moms, leaders, creatives
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â Women with full lives who donât have time to mess around
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â Women who got tired of swiping, dead-end situationships & playing small
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They joined because their desire for the best love of their life
was stronger than their fear of being
âtoo busy.â
And guess what?
Theyâre now in the
BEST RELATIONSHIP OF THEIR LIVES.
 They didnât wait for âsomeday.â They took up space for their own desires
âwithout burning themselves out.
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If youâve been thinking:
"My schedule is just too hecticâŠ"
"I donât have time to deal with dating appsâŠ"
"Itâs too much effort to find a good guyâŠ"
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Then let me tell you the truth:
đĄ You donât need more time
âyou need a BETTER STRATEGY.
Hereâs What Past Attendees Shared about the SPARCC 90 day Method...
Are You Ready to Finally Claim The Love And Connection You Desire?
GET READY NOW
đ°If you took all these Modules Separately it would COST: $20,000.
đ°I even have 1 on 1 VIP CLIENTSÂ who pay: $30,000 for my coaching program.
But Tonight, youâre going to INVEST IN YOUR FUTURE, SO YOU CAN DATE LIKE A GROWN ASS WOMAN by joining SPARCC 90 day PROGRAM.
This costs: $4997
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đ„BUT WAIT. By being here tonight
you get an additional $2,000 off.
$4997
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That's ALL THIS for $2997
Get started with a deposit of $300.Â
YES, YOU HEARD THAT RIGHT. That means all this for $2997
đ° 2,000 OFF. (for the next 5 days.)
...thats ONLY $249 a week (cheaper than a costco visit)
For your Future
For your Heart
For your Soul
This is Healthier than a gym Membership
This is Healthier than a gym Membership
Better than a trip Costco
Not a fly-by-night, TikTok digital course
This is a version of THERAPYÂ â DATING THERAPY for YOUR BEST LIFE
THIS IS YOUR LIFE
AND ITS TIME TO LIVE LIKE A
GROWN ASS WOMAN
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ADDED BONUS:
Retreat in LA and a full-on, real-world experience at the end
âwith ACTUAL high-quality men in LA.
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Youâre Protected with Our 100% Risk-Free Money Back Guarantee
Thereâs literally no risk involved, because youâre backed by our 15-day money back guarantee!
Buy it, try it, apply it. Youâre backed by our 100% money back guarantee.
I guarantee you have a new dating profile with new images that align with who you are at this time in your life
You will have new tools to communicate magnetize and attract whatever you want in your life, including LOVE!
I Guarantee feeling alive and connected and beautiful in your body.
A NOTE FROM YOUR COACH
Hey there!
Iâm Amber J..
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and I know exactly what itâs like to be a high-achieving, independent woman whoâs crushing it in lifeâbut still feeling like dating is a total mystery.
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I created Date Like a Grown A$$ Woman SPARCC Program because I was tired of seeing my brilliant, successful, badass friendsâexecutives, entrepreneurs, single moms, creatives, and leadersâfail at love again and again.
Not because they werenât enough (hell no!), but because no one ever taught us how to date as women whoâve built entire empires but somehow still feel out of control in our love lives.
Iâve been there. I was engaged three times, and each time, I said yes for the wrong reasons.
 đ My first fiancĂ© cheated on me. That confirmed the story I had told myself my whole lifeâthat I wasnât good enough.
 đ My second fiancĂ© was wonderful but safe. I knew if I married him, I would have to shrink my dreams to fit inside that relationship.
 đ My third fiancĂ© had a psychotic break. Had I stayed, my life would have been spent walking on eggshells, managing his emotions instead of living my own truth.
Each time, I had to unlearn the outdated rules about love that werenât built for women like me. I had to ditch the âgood girlâ conditioning, step into my power, and take radical ownership of my dating life. And let me tell you⊠EVERYTHING CHANGED.
At 49 years old, I had a sexual awakening.
I embraced my femininity, I stopped overgiving, and I learned how to date with confidence, ease, and joy.
And now? IâM HERE FOR YOU.
How Did I Get Here?
Before I became the go-to dating coach for high-achieving Gen X women, I was running the Hollywood boysâ club.
I spent years as a media executive, digital strategist, and entertainment powerhouse, working on Emmy-nominated productions and collaborating with comedy legends like Adam Sandler, Jimmy Fallon, and Whitney Cummings through my nonprofit, Comedy Gives Back.
I was named Entrepreneur of the Year by Cynopsis Women in Digital and honored as one of the Top 50 Women in Digital.
I built a career where I was often the only woman in the boardroomânegotiating deals, closing contracts, making shit happen. I knew how to lead. I knew how to succeed.
 But I didnât know how to RECEIVE.
Like so many high-powered women, I was stuck in my masculine energy, handling everything myself,
never truly trusting that a partner could show up for me the way I needed.
 đ My relationships felt transactional.
 đ Sex became just another item on my to-do list.
 đ I was giving everything⊠and getting nothing in return.
I see this every single day in the women I coach.
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đ The executive who can command a boardroom but canât seem to attract an equal partner.
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đ The single mom whoâs given everything to her kids and doesnât even know what she wants anymore.
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đ The entrepreneur whoâs wildly successful in business but keeps dating men who âjust arenât ready.â
Sound familiar?
The problem isnât you. The problem is the outdated rules we were taught.
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 đ« That we should wait to be chosen.
 đ« That we should tone ourselves down to be âmore desirable.â
 đ« That wanting love deeply makes us weak.
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F**k that. Youâre not here to play small. Youâre here to take up space, own your desires, and attract the kind of love that actually fuels your life.
This Is What Happens When You Date Like a Grown A$$ Woman
đ„ You stop chasing and start attracting.
 đ„ You set standards that feel good, and you actually stick to them.
 đ„ You show up as your FULL selfâwithout fear, without apology.
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And when you do that?
 đ„ Dating becomes FUN again.
 đ„ You magnetize high-quality partners effortlessly.
 đ„ You feel sexy, desired, and completely in control.
This is exactly what I teach inside Date Like a Grown A$$ Woman SPARCC Program.
Itâs time to ditch the dating drama, call in the right partners, and finally date in a way that feels GOOD. Letâs do this. đđ„
Xoxo,
 Amber J.
 Your Gen X Galâs Guide to Dating Like a Grown-A$$ Woman
HAVE A QUESTION?
Frequently Asked Questions
If you're considering Date Like a Grown A$$ Woman, we know you probably have questions before taking the leap.
Here are the top 10 most frequently asked questions to help you feel confident in your decision.
What methods does the program use to help participants find desired relationships in 90 days?
What kind of support and guidance will I receive throughout the program?
What results can I expect? Can you share success stories?
Whatâs included in the program? Are there any additional costs?
Iâm super busy. Will this program fit into my schedule?
Iâm nervous⊠What if it doesnât work for me?
Is this program only for women who want a serious relationship?
What if Iâve been out of the dating game for years?
How do I sign up? What are the payment options?
What happens after I enroll?
Still Not Sure if Date Like A Grown A$$ Woman SPARCC is for You?
Letâs keep it real. If youâre here, you already know something needs to change. Youâre done with the same old dating patterns, and youâre ready to do things differently. But is this program truly the right fit for you?
Hereâs the deal: This is NOT for everyone.
If youâre looking for quick fixes, magic formulas, or ways to âwinâ at dating, this ainât it. Date Like A Grown A$$ Woman is about real, lasting transformationâso you can attract the RIGHT people and create a love life that feels good, aligned, and exciting again.
Who This is NOT For:
đ« You Want Instant Results Without Doing the Work. If youâre expecting love to magically appear without putting in the time, self-reflection, and action, this program wonât work for you.
đ« Youâre Not Willing to Look at Your Own Patterns. SPARCC is about rewiring old beliefs and shifting behaviors that havenât served you. If youâre resistant to change, this wonât be a good fit.
đ« Youâre Currently in Crisis or Deep Trauma. If youâre in the middle of a major life upheavalâdivorce, loss, or emotional crisisâyou may need time to heal before diving into dating work.
đ« Youâre Looking for Manipulative Dating âHacks.â This program is about authentic, high-value datingânot tricks, games, or tactics to manipulate someone into liking you.
đ« Youâre Not Open to Support or Community. The power of SPARCC comes from the women inside itâuplifting, supporting, and holding each other accountable. If you prefer to do everything alone, this may not be the right space for you.
đ« Youâre Not Ready to Commit to Yourself. If youâre not willing to carve out an hour a week to prioritize your own happiness and future, this isnât your time.
Who This IS For:
đ„ Youâre DONE repeating the same patterns and are ready to attract high-quality, emotionally available partners.
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đ„ Youâre ready to shift your mindset and take control of your dating lifeâon YOUR terms.
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đ„ You want a structured, proven system that teaches you how to date smarter, not harder.
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đ„ Youâre open to learning, growing, and getting support from a community of powerhouse women who GET IT.
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đ„ Youâre ready to stop waiting and start DOING.
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If youâre nodding along, this program was made for you.
Letâs get started. đđđ
Quick, claim the LOVE THAT YOU DESIRE
Enroll Today
Get Started Now - Choose the Date Like A Grown A$$ Woman SPARCC 90 Day Program Plan that Works for You
WE START APRIL 1st (yes April Fools Day - but you arenât no fool)
- 12 Weekly Live Group Coaching Sessions
â Deep transformation, dating strategy & expert guidance from ME, Amber J! - Experiential Learning & Emotional Breakthrough Exercises
â Rewire limiting beliefs & break unhealthy patterns. - High-Value Attraction Strategies
â Shift from chasing to attracting & create real connections. - Custom Dating Manifesto & Profile Overhaul
â Meet aligned partners online & IRL.
- 24/7 WhatsApp Support & Sisterhood Community
â Get real-time coaching, celebrate wins, and never date alone again! - Personalized Dating Profile & Post-Date Review
â Become a magnet for the right relationship. - BONUS: Flirt, Flow & Date with Confidence Workshop
â Your Guide to Joyful Dating
Over 3 months, You'll Get:
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âš The Proven Date Like A Grown A$$ Woman Course â Video guides, transformative workbooks, dating meditations, and challenges.
âš Live Weekly Coaching & Daily WhatsApp Support â Get real-time feedback, ask questions, and take aligned action.
âš A Private Community â Connect with high-achieving, like-minded women who are on the same journey.
âš A Settle-Proof Love Life Framework â Learn how to attract, date, and be in the best relationship of your lifeâon YOUR terms.
Weekly, You'll Get:
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âš 2 minutes â Check your onboarding guide so you always know exactly what to do next.
âš 30 seconds â Watch one short, powerful video that shifts your mindset immediately.
âš 60 minutes â Join our weekly live group coaching session for real-time support and strategy.
âš 5 minutes â Complete a game-changing workbook or lesson designed to create immediate shifts.
âš 3 minutes â Drop into our 24/7 WhatsApp sisterhood to celebrate wins & get support.
âš In-Person Dating Plan Built Into Your Calendar â So your joy-building activities, co-conspirator chats, and dating app time feel effortless and fun.
