Does your inner voice say thing like,
"I'm too old. OR
They only want yonger women"?
I hear you ANDDDD Trust ME they WANT YOU! Imagine if you could effortlessly filter out the sad duds and connect with quality matches who meet your passion and life level.
What if, in just 90 DAYS, YOU Could Efficiently Reclaim Your Sense of Power, Confidence and Desire?
It's time to stop settling for less and start attracting the love and connection you deserve.
TAKE ACTION NOW for a transformative journey where you'll learn to navigate the dating world with ease,
weed out the undesirables, and embrace your true pleasure.
Don't wait any longer to have love in your life.
The up-leveling begins now.
What Happens When You Date Like a GROWN-ASS WOMAN?
You feel CONFIDENT.
You feel FREE.
You give ZERO F*CKS.
You make your OWN rules.
And let’s be real—change doesn’t happen overnight.
My coaching is going to AWAKEN new parts of you.
My coaching is going to EXPOSE you to new ideas.
And then...
💪It’s going to take REPETITION
💪Reps in the gymnasium of your life. 💪Reps to rewire old beliefs.
💪Reps to learn how to date like a grown-a$$ woman.
And when you do?
You’ll have FUN dating again.
You’ll attract men who actually SHOW UP.
You’ll feel sexy, desired, and in control.
You’ll create AUTHENTIC connections.
Not because you followed the rules. Not because you played “the good girl.”
But because you finally STOPPED.
Here’s the Problem...
You know that in order to attract the right kind of partner and create a love life that excites you, you need a CLEAR STRATEGY, CONFIDENCE in who you are, and a way to date that DOESN'T FEEL LIKE A SECOND JOB.
BUT RIGHT NOW?
You’re stuck in old patterns, unsure where to start.
You’re questioning your desirability after years out of the game.
You don’t have time to waste on dead-end dates and ghosting.
That’s where Date Like a Grown A$$ Woman comes in.
We take the guesswork out of dating so you can date smarter, not harder—with confidence, clarity, and a process that actually works.
The REAL STRUGGLES of a Single,
Successful Woman Dating Over 40
Daily Struggles:
Weekly Struggles:
Monthly Struggles:
Sound familiar?
You’re not alone. And this cycle does not have to continue.
INTRODUCING
Date Like A Grown A$$ Woman
SPARCC 90 Day Program
Dating as a successful woman over 40 shouldn’t feel like a part-time job—or a soul-sucking chore.
You’ve spent years building your career, raising a family,
and taking care of everyone else.
Now? It’s your time.
But let’s be real—modern dating is a minefield of ghosting, dead-end conversations, and men who don’t meet your standards.
You’re exhausted from swiping, unsure how to navigate this new world, and wondering if it’s even worth the effort.
Spoiler alert: It absolutely is—when you have the right strategy.
Date Like a Grown A$$ Woman SPARCC
is a 90-day transformational program
designed for high-achieving women who are DONE settling, DONE second-guessing, and READY to take control of their dating life.
- This isn’t about chasing love or playing by outdated rules.
It’s about getting crystal clear on what you want, shifting old patterns, and confidently attracting high-value partners—without wasting your time on the wrong ones. - You’ll learn the exact framework I’ve used (and taught hundreds of women) to date smarter, not harder, with real strategies that work in your life.
- Inside this program, you’ll break free from limiting beliefs, master high-value attraction strategies, and finally experience dating as something fun again.
- You’ll have expert coaching, a powerful sisterhood, and a proven system to follow, so you’re never navigating this alone.
If you’re ready to stop waiting and start owning your love life,
THIS IS YOUR MOMENT.
"It Made Me Feel Vital and Alive and Sexy"
... I am not invisible. And, if I apply my focus and energy to any area of my life, that it can be revitalized.
I always was hung up on like, oh, I'm overweight, have kids and only certain kinds of guys are gonna like me. If you go out there with a positive attitude… and you bring a lot of enthusiasm to the party, (which I definitely do).
Then the world is your oyster and the range of people who might be interested in what you're putting out there. You WILL be surprised."
- ERIN, TV Exec/ Hotter Than Ever Podcast
Ready to Change Your Dating Life?
LET'S DIG INTO THE DETAILS
What’s Inside Date Like A Grown A$$ Woman SPARCC:
Ready to Change Your Dating Life?
"Is the Date Like A Grown A$$ Woman SPARCC Program right for me?"
The truth? This program isn’t for everyone.
I know that probably sounds surprising coming from the person
selling this program, but it’s the truth.
Because this isn’t a quick fix.
This is not for women who:
Want overnight success
(if you’re looking for a magic love potion, this ain’t it!)
Aren’t ready to challenge old patterns
(if you want to keep doing the same thing & expecting different results, that’s called insanity—Einstein said that, not me!)
Refuse to put themselves first
(this program will ask you to break old habits & prioritize YOUR needs—because you deserve it!)
Think the perfect man will just ‘show up’
(spoiler alert: dating smarter means being intentional—not waiting for Prince Charming to DM you!)
BUT IF YOU'RE A WOMAN WHO:
Is DONE wasting time on dead-end dates & unavailable men
Wants to date on HER terms (not society’s or her ex’s)
Is ready to feel sexy, confident, and in control
Wants a step-by-step process that actually WORKS
…then the Date Like A Grown A$$ Woman SPARCC Program was made for you.
✔ Execs, entrepreneurs, single moms, leaders, creatives
✔ Women with full lives who don’t have time to mess around
✔ Women who got tired of swiping, dead-end situationships & playing small
They joined because their desire for the best love of their life
was stronger than their fear of being
“too busy.”
And guess what?
They’re now in the
BEST RELATIONSHIP OF THEIR LIVES.
They didn’t wait for “someday.” They took up space for their own desires
—without burning themselves out.
If you’ve been thinking:
"My schedule is just too hectic…"
"I don’t have time to deal with dating apps…"
"It’s too much effort to find a good guy…"
Then let me tell you the truth:
💡 You don’t need more time
—you need a BETTER STRATEGY.
Here’s What Past Attendees Shared about the SPARCC 90 day Method...
Are You Ready to Finally Claim The Love And Connection You Desire?
GET READY NOW
💰If you took all these Modules Separately it would COST: $20,000.
💰I even have 1 on 1 VIP CLIENTS who pay: $30,000 for my coaching program.
But Tonight, you’re going to INVEST IN YOUR FUTURE, SO YOU CAN DATE LIKE A GROWN ASS WOMAN by joining SPARCC 90 day PROGRAM.
This costs: $4997
💥BUT WAIT. By being here tonight
you get an additional $2,000 off.
$4997
That's ALL THIS for $2997
Get started with a deposit of $300.
YES, YOU HEARD THAT RIGHT. That means all this for $2997
💰 2,000 OFF. (for the next 5 days.)
...thats ONLY $249 a week (cheaper than a costco visit)
For your Future
For your Heart
For your Soul
This is Healthier than a gym Membership
This is Healthier than a gym Membership
Better than a trip Costco
Not a fly-by-night, TikTok digital course
This is a version of THERAPY – DATING THERAPY for YOUR BEST LIFE
THIS IS YOUR LIFE
AND ITS TIME TO LIVE LIKE A
GROWN ASS WOMAN
🚨 DO NOT WAIT. 🚨
ADDED BONUS:
Retreat in LA and a full-on, real-world experience at the end
—with ACTUAL high-quality men in LA.
You’re Protected with Our 100% Risk-Free Money Back Guarantee
There’s literally no risk involved, because you’re backed by our 15-day money back guarantee!
Buy it, try it, apply it. You’re backed by our 100% money back guarantee.
I guarantee you have a new dating profile with new images that align with who you are at this time in your life
You will have new tools to communicate magnetize and attract whatever you want in your life, including LOVE!
I Guarantee feeling alive and connected and beautiful in your body.
A NOTE FROM YOUR COACH
Hey there!
I’m Amber J..
and I know exactly what it’s like to be a high-achieving, independent woman who’s crushing it in life—but still feeling like dating is a total mystery.
I created Date Like a Grown A$$ Woman SPARCC Program because I was tired of seeing my brilliant, successful, badass friends—executives, entrepreneurs, single moms, creatives, and leaders—fail at love again and again.
Not because they weren’t enough (hell no!), but because no one ever taught us how to date as women who’ve built entire empires but somehow still feel out of control in our love lives.
I’ve been there. I was engaged three times, and each time, I said yes for the wrong reasons.
💔 My first fiancé cheated on me. That confirmed the story I had told myself my whole life—that I wasn’t good enough.
💔 My second fiancé was wonderful but safe. I knew if I married him, I would have to shrink my dreams to fit inside that relationship.
💔 My third fiancé had a psychotic break. Had I stayed, my life would have been spent walking on eggshells, managing his emotions instead of living my own truth.
Each time, I had to unlearn the outdated rules about love that weren’t built for women like me. I had to ditch the “good girl” conditioning, step into my power, and take radical ownership of my dating life. And let me tell you… EVERYTHING CHANGED.
At 49 years old, I had a sexual awakening.
I embraced my femininity, I stopped overgiving, and I learned how to date with confidence, ease, and joy.
And now? I’M HERE FOR YOU.
How Did I Get Here?
Before I became the go-to dating coach for high-achieving Gen X women, I was running the Hollywood boys’ club.
I spent years as a media executive, digital strategist, and entertainment powerhouse, working on Emmy-nominated productions and collaborating with comedy legends like Adam Sandler, Jimmy Fallon, and Whitney Cummings through my nonprofit, Comedy Gives Back.
I was named Entrepreneur of the Year by Cynopsis Women in Digital and honored as one of the Top 50 Women in Digital.
I built a career where I was often the only woman in the boardroom—negotiating deals, closing contracts, making shit happen. I knew how to lead. I knew how to succeed.
But I didn’t know how to RECEIVE.
Like so many high-powered women, I was stuck in my masculine energy, handling everything myself,
never truly trusting that a partner could show up for me the way I needed.
💔 My relationships felt transactional.
💔 Sex became just another item on my to-do list.
💔 I was giving everything… and getting nothing in return.
I see this every single day in the women I coach.
👉 The executive who can command a boardroom but can’t seem to attract an equal partner.
👉 The single mom who’s given everything to her kids and doesn’t even know what she wants anymore.
👉 The entrepreneur who’s wildly successful in business but keeps dating men who “just aren’t ready.”
Sound familiar?
The problem isn’t you. The problem is the outdated rules we were taught.
🚫 That we should wait to be chosen.
🚫 That we should tone ourselves down to be “more desirable.”
🚫 That wanting love deeply makes us weak.
F**k that. You’re not here to play small. You’re here to take up space, own your desires, and attract the kind of love that actually fuels your life.
This Is What Happens When You Date Like a Grown A$$ Woman
💥 You stop chasing and start attracting.
💥 You set standards that feel good, and you actually stick to them.
💥 You show up as your FULL self—without fear, without apology.
And when you do that?
🔥 Dating becomes FUN again.
🔥 You magnetize high-quality partners effortlessly.
🔥 You feel sexy, desired, and completely in control.
This is exactly what I teach inside Date Like a Grown A$$ Woman SPARCC Program.
It’s time to ditch the dating drama, call in the right partners, and finally date in a way that feels GOOD. Let’s do this. 💋🔥
Xoxo,
Amber J.
Your Gen X Gal’s Guide to Dating Like a Grown-A$$ Woman
HAVE A QUESTION?
Frequently Asked Questions
If you're considering Date Like a Grown A$$ Woman, we know you probably have questions before taking the leap.
Here are the top 10 most frequently asked questions to help you feel confident in your decision.
What methods does the program use to help participants find desired relationships in 90 days?
What kind of support and guidance will I receive throughout the program?
What results can I expect? Can you share success stories?
What’s included in the program? Are there any additional costs?
I’m super busy. Will this program fit into my schedule?
I’m nervous… What if it doesn’t work for me?
Is this program only for women who want a serious relationship?
What if I’ve been out of the dating game for years?
How do I sign up? What are the payment options?
What happens after I enroll?
Still Not Sure if Date Like A Grown A$$ Woman SPARCC is for You?
Let’s keep it real. If you’re here, you already know something needs to change. You’re done with the same old dating patterns, and you’re ready to do things differently. But is this program truly the right fit for you?
Here’s the deal: This is NOT for everyone.
If you’re looking for quick fixes, magic formulas, or ways to “win” at dating, this ain’t it. Date Like A Grown A$$ Woman is about real, lasting transformation—so you can attract the RIGHT people and create a love life that feels good, aligned, and exciting again.
Who This is NOT For:
🚫 You Want Instant Results Without Doing the Work. If you’re expecting love to magically appear without putting in the time, self-reflection, and action, this program won’t work for you.
🚫 You’re Not Willing to Look at Your Own Patterns. SPARCC is about rewiring old beliefs and shifting behaviors that haven’t served you. If you’re resistant to change, this won’t be a good fit.
🚫 You’re Currently in Crisis or Deep Trauma. If you’re in the middle of a major life upheaval—divorce, loss, or emotional crisis—you may need time to heal before diving into dating work.
🚫 You’re Looking for Manipulative Dating “Hacks.” This program is about authentic, high-value dating—not tricks, games, or tactics to manipulate someone into liking you.
🚫 You’re Not Open to Support or Community. The power of SPARCC comes from the women inside it—uplifting, supporting, and holding each other accountable. If you prefer to do everything alone, this may not be the right space for you.
🚫 You’re Not Ready to Commit to Yourself. If you’re not willing to carve out an hour a week to prioritize your own happiness and future, this isn’t your time.
Who This IS For:
🔥 You’re DONE repeating the same patterns and are ready to attract high-quality, emotionally available partners.
🔥 You’re ready to shift your mindset and take control of your dating life—on YOUR terms.
🔥 You want a structured, proven system that teaches you how to date smarter, not harder.
🔥 You’re open to learning, growing, and getting support from a community of powerhouse women who GET IT.
🔥 You’re ready to stop waiting and start DOING.
If you’re nodding along, this program was made for you.
Let’s get started. 👇👇👇
Quick, claim the LOVE THAT YOU DESIRE
Enroll Today
Get Started Now - Choose the Date Like A Grown A$$ Woman SPARCC 90 Day Program Plan that Works for You
WE START APRIL 1st (yes April Fools Day - but you aren’t no fool)
- 12 Weekly Live Group Coaching Sessions
– Deep transformation, dating strategy & expert guidance from ME, Amber J! - Experiential Learning & Emotional Breakthrough Exercises
– Rewire limiting beliefs & break unhealthy patterns. - High-Value Attraction Strategies
– Shift from chasing to attracting & create real connections. - Custom Dating Manifesto & Profile Overhaul
– Meet aligned partners online & IRL.
- 24/7 WhatsApp Support & Sisterhood Community
– Get real-time coaching, celebrate wins, and never date alone again! - Personalized Dating Profile & Post-Date Review
– Become a magnet for the right relationship. - BONUS: Flirt, Flow & Date with Confidence Workshop
– Your Guide to Joyful Dating
Over 3 months, You'll Get:
✨ The Proven Date Like A Grown A$$ Woman Course – Video guides, transformative workbooks, dating meditations, and challenges.
✨ Live Weekly Coaching & Daily WhatsApp Support – Get real-time feedback, ask questions, and take aligned action.
✨ A Private Community – Connect with high-achieving, like-minded women who are on the same journey.
✨ A Settle-Proof Love Life Framework – Learn how to attract, date, and be in the best relationship of your life—on YOUR terms.
Weekly, You'll Get:
✨ 2 minutes – Check your onboarding guide so you always know exactly what to do next.
✨ 30 seconds – Watch one short, powerful video that shifts your mindset immediately.
✨ 60 minutes – Join our weekly live group coaching session for real-time support and strategy.
✨ 5 minutes – Complete a game-changing workbook or lesson designed to create immediate shifts.
✨ 3 minutes – Drop into our 24/7 WhatsApp sisterhood to celebrate wins & get support.
✨ In-Person Dating Plan Built Into Your Calendar – So your joy-building activities, co-conspirator chats, and dating app time feel effortless and fun.
