Do you often find yourself lamenting,
"I'm too old.
They only want yonger women"?
Trust ME they WANT YOU! Imagine if you could effortlessly filter out the sad dad duds and connect with quality matches who ignite your passion and excitement.
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What if, in just 90 DAYS, YOU Could Efficiently Reclaim Your Sense of Desire, Confidence and Power?
It's time to stop settling for less and start attracting the love and admiration you deserve.
TAKE ACTION NOWÂ and sign up for the priority list to experience a transformative journey where you'll learn to navigate the dating world with ease, weed out the undesirables, and embrace your true pleasure.
Don't wait any longer to revitalize your love life.
What Happens When You Date Like a GROWN-ASS WOMAN?
You feel CONFIDENT.
You feel
FREE.
You give ZERO F*CKS.
You make your OWN rules.
And let’s be real—change doesn’t happen overnight.
My coaching is going to AWAKEN new parts of you.
My coaching is going to EXPOSE you to new ideas.
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And then?
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It’s going to take REPETITION.
Reps in the gymnasium of your life. Reps to rewire old beliefs.
Reps to learn how to date like a grown-ass woman.
And when you do?
You’ll have FUN dating again.
You’ll attract men who actually SHOW UP.
You’ll feel sexy, desired, and in control.
You’ll create AUTHENTIC connections.
Not because you followed the rules. Not because you played “the good girl.”
But because you finally STOPPED.
INTRODUCING
Date Like A Grown A$$ Woman
SPARCC 90 Day Program
- a 90-Day Structured Program Designed to Ignite Your 40+ Love Life.
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Dating as a successful woman over 40 shouldn’t feel like a part-time job—or a soul-sucking chore.
You’ve spent years building your career, raising a family,
and taking care of everyone else.
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Now? It’s your time.
But let’s be real—modern dating is a minefield of ghosting, dead-end conversations, and men who don’t meet your standards.
You’re exhausted from swiping, unsure how to navigate this new world, and wondering if it’s even worth the effort.
Spoiler alert: It absolutely is—when you have the right strategy.Â
Date Like a Grown A$$ Woman SPARCC
is a 90-day transformational program
designed for high-achieving women who are DONE settling, DONE second-guessing, and READY to take control of their dating life.
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- This isn’t about chasing love or playing by outdated rules.
It’s about getting crystal clear on what you want, shifting old patterns, and confidently attracting high-value partners—without wasting your time on the wrong ones. - You’ll learn the exact framework I’ve used (and taught hundreds of women) to date smarter, not harder, with real strategies that work in your life.
- Inside this program, you’ll break free from limiting beliefs, master high-value attraction strategies, and finally experience dating as something fun again.
- You’ll have expert coaching, a powerful sisterhood, and a proven system to follow, so you’re never navigating this alone.Â
If you’re ready to stop waiting and start owning your love life,
THIS IS YOUR MOMENT.
"It Made Me Feel Vital and Alive and Sexy"
... I am not invisible. And, if I apply my focus and energy to any area of my life, that it can be revitalized.
I always was hung up on like, oh, I'm overweight, have kids and only certain kinds of guys are gonna like me. If you go out there with a positive attitude… and you bring a lot of enthusiasm to the party, (which I definitely do).
Then the world is your oyster and the range of people who might be interested in what you're putting out there. You WILL be surprised."
- ERIN, TV Exec/ Hotter Than Ever Podcast
Ready to Change Your Dating Life?
Are You Ready to Finally Claim The Love And Connection You Desire?
A NOTE FROM YOUR COACH
Hey there!
I’m Amber J..
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and I know exactly what it’s like to be a high-achieving, independent woman who’s crushing it in life—but still feeling like dating is a total mystery.
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I created Date Like a Grown A$$ Woman SPARCC Program because I was tired of seeing my brilliant, successful, badass friends—executives, entrepreneurs, single moms, creatives, and leaders—fail at love again and again.
Not because they weren’t enough (hell no!), but because no one ever taught us how to date as women who’ve built entire empires but somehow still feel out of control in our love lives.
I’ve been there. I was engaged three times, and each time, I said yes for the wrong reasons.
 💔 My first fiancé cheated on me. That confirmed the story I had told myself my whole life—that I wasn’t good enough.
 💔 My second fiancé was wonderful but safe. I knew if I married him, I would have to shrink my dreams to fit inside that relationship.
 💔 My third fiancé had a psychotic break. Had I stayed, my life would have been spent walking on eggshells, managing his emotions instead of living my own truth.
Each time, I had to unlearn the outdated rules about love that weren’t built for women like me. I had to ditch the “good girl” conditioning, step into my power, and take radical ownership of my dating life. And let me tell you… EVERYTHING CHANGED.
At 49 years old, I had a sexual awakening.
I embraced my femininity, I stopped overgiving, and I learned how to date with confidence, ease, and joy.
And now? I’M HERE FOR YOU.
How Did I Get Here?
Before I became the go-to dating coach for high-achieving Gen X women, I was running the Hollywood boys’ club.
I spent years as a media executive, digital strategist, and entertainment powerhouse, working on Emmy-nominated productions and collaborating with comedy legends like Adam Sandler, Jimmy Fallon, and Whitney Cummings through my nonprofit, Comedy Gives Back.
I was named Entrepreneur of the Year by Cynopsis Women in Digital and honored as one of the Top 50 Women in Digital.
I built a career where I was often the only woman in the boardroom—negotiating deals, closing contracts, making shit happen. I knew how to lead. I knew how to succeed.
 But I didn’t know how to RECEIVE.
Like so many high-powered women, I was stuck in my masculine energy, handling everything myself,
never truly trusting that a partner could show up for me the way I needed.
 💔 My relationships felt transactional.
 💔 Sex became just another item on my to-do list.
 💔 I was giving everything… and getting nothing in return.
I see this every single day in the women I coach.
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👉 The executive who can command a boardroom but can’t seem to attract an equal partner.
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👉 The single mom who’s given everything to her kids and doesn’t even know what she wants anymore.
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👉 The entrepreneur who’s wildly successful in business but keeps dating men who “just aren’t ready.”
Sound familiar?
The problem isn’t you. The problem is the outdated rules we were taught.
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 🚫 That we should wait to be chosen.
 🚫 That we should tone ourselves down to be “more desirable.”
 🚫 That wanting love deeply makes us weak.
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F**k that. You’re not here to play small. You’re here to take up space, own your desires, and attract the kind of love that actually fuels your life.
This Is What Happens When You Date Like a Grown A$$ Woman
đź’Ą You stop chasing and start attracting.
 💥 You set standards that feel good, and you actually stick to them.
 💥 You show up as your FULL self—without fear, without apology.
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And when you do that?
 🔥 Dating becomes FUN again.
 🔥 You magnetize high-quality partners effortlessly.
 🔥 You feel sexy, desired, and completely in control.
This is exactly what I teach inside Date Like a Grown A$$ Woman SPARCC Program.
It’s time to ditch the dating drama, call in the right partners, and finally date in a way that feels GOOD. Let’s do this. 💋🔥
Xoxo,
 Amber J.
 Your Gen X Gal’s Guide to Dating Like a Grown-A$$ Woman
