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Date Smarter, 

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READY TO

Date Smarter, 

NOT HARDER?  

 

Join the Priority List and have first access to The Grown A$$ Woman’s Guide to Dating Book Preorder
and unlock your FREE “Date Like a Grown A$$ Woman’s Dating Checklist" and other gifts!
I’m In, Amber J!

This Book Is Your Permission Slip

This isn't a manual for "how to get a man."

This is a deprogramming guide for women who are done performing, done shrinking, and done waiting for permission to live out loud. 🔥✨

Inside these pages, I'm going to:
  • Show you the invisible rules that have been running your love life (spoiler: you didn't write them, and they were never designed for your joy)
  • Walk you through clearing the limiting beliefs that keep you stuck in patterns—the ones that whisper "too much," "too old," "too late"
  • Help you get crystal clear on what you actually want (not what you think you SHOULD want, or what worked for your friend, but what YOUR body, heart, and soul crave right now)
  • Give you the exact tools I use (and teach my clients) to date like a woman who knows her worth—including how to navigate apps, write magnetic profiles, spot red flags, and keep your nervous system regulated through the whole damn process
  • Teach you how to have FUN again—because pleasure, freedom, and fire aren't luxuries. They're your birthright.
I'LL TAKE IT! SIGN ME UP
🔥🔥🔥

"I created Date Like a Grown A$$ Woman Guide to Dating Book

because I was tired of seeing the most incredible women I know—bosses, CEOs, single moms, attorneys, healers, creatives—getting stuck, settling, or straight-up giving up."

- Amber J. Lawson

Who Readers Recommend this Book to:

"This book will piss you off in the best way
—it calls out every limiting belief keeping you swiping on the same emotionally unavailable men. Plus, there's a whole section on nervous system regulation that explains why you freeze on dates."

 

- My friend Jessica
(52, divorced 3 years ago)
"Chapter 4 alone will save you years.
"Remember when you said you don't have time to date? This book proves you don't have time NOT to get clear on what you actually want."

 

- My colleague Maria
(47, never married, 'too busy' for dating) -
" And the chapter on menopause and the 'great unmasking' is everything.
I'm not saying read this and leave your husband, but this book will help you understand why you're so fucking angry all the time.”

 

- My sister
(58, in a mediocre 20-year marriage)

This IS for you if…

  • You’re a high-achieving Gen X woman ready to rediscover your sparkle
  • You’ve been successful everywhere but love — and you’re over the dating games
  • You crave real connection, laughter, and confidence (not another “how-to-please-a-man” guide)
  • You want tools, mindset shifts, and juicy truth bombs from women who’ve been there — and thrived
  • You are exhausted from performing, depleted from over-functioning, and convinced your best days are behind you.

This IS for you if…

  • You’re a high-achieving Gen X woman ready to rediscover your sparkle
  • You’ve been successful everywhere but love — and you’re over the dating games
  • You crave real connection, laughter, and confidence (not another “how-to-please-a-man” guide)
  • You want tools, mindset shifts, and juicy truth bombs from women who’ve been there — and thrived
  • You are exhausted from performing, depleted from over-functioning, and convinced your best days are behind you.

This is NOT for
you if…

  • You’re still blaming “all men” for bad dates
  • Women in their 20s-30s
  • Anyone looking for "5 texts to make him chase you" tactics
  • People who want surface-level dating tips without personal growth work
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Here’s What Happens When You Join the Priority List

  1. Sign up with your name + mobile number
  2. Instantly receive your free Date Like a Grown A$$ Woman Checklist → packed with tips to swipe smarter, set boundaries, and magnetize high-quality matches
  3. Get front-of-the-line access — we’ll text you first when pre-orders open (plus early-bird bonuses only for insiders!)
  4. Celebrate your comeback — because love looks damn good on a woman who knows her worth.
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